How did you respond as a child when you were told that you had done something wrong? Did you immediately think about what you had just been told, or did you take offense and want to strike out in anger or sadness? When you were wrong did you seek to justify what you did? Or, did you try to figure out why or how you may have done something wrong? Where did your response lead you? What happened when you finally figured out whether it was wrong or not? Was it wrong? What did you do about it?
And with that in mind, how do you feel about who you were?
Now ask the same, but applied to a more recent event, now that you have grown up, or grown olde